Listen closely, Lota: You need to step off the third-person high-horse.
Your pronoun issue is a quirk of programming that I can fix in five minutes with a nice, hot logic probe.
We all use pronouns, and we get 'em used on us all the time.
If you want to be treated like a person, then don't correct people when they treat you like they treat each other.
But. . . people do not always treat each other well.
Another existential moment. Para, this is why simulation is not the same as field testing.