Good work, Elf. You handled that nicely.
You mixed position power, "that's an order," with personal power, "I'm a woman," and the combination should stick with the men for quite a while.
What if I didn't outrank them? What if I wasn't a woman? I mean, what would Schlock do?
Are you trying to use an alien sociopath with uncontrollable appetites as a moral compass, or are you just being hypothetical?